Sunday, October 26, 2025

Dog bites I have known

My family and I have always loved dogs and I have lived with at least one dog all my life, until the death of Cosmo. But I  also know that dogs can and do inflict harm with thier teeth, deliberately meaning to harm humans. 
 I was about 3 years old when I saw the first dog bite. My brother and I were outside our house and playing in the front yard. Our dog was lying on the lawn, sleeping in the sun. I seem to remember that the dog had been given to my father by someone he knew, fellow worker or neighbor, I can't say. It was a chow and I  don't know what its name was, so it was probably fairly new to our family. My brother decided we should cover up the dog with whatever we could find to do so. We were placing leaves and maybe little branches or pieces of grass on top of the sleeping dog. I had stepped away, most likely to find another piece to apply to the animal, when suddenly the dog leapt up and bit my brother's face, right near his eye. Maybe he'd stepped on the dog's foot or maybe the dog just woke up and went into defense mode. The blood streamed down his face. My mother ran out and picked him up. I remember her standing in the driveway waiting for the mailman, (probably Billy O'Neill) to come to take him to the doctor, as we had no transportation or telephone. All went well, except for the dog. I don't know if Dr. Sproat stitched up his wound, which may still  remain  as a scar.
    I have been bitten by dogs 3 times in my life, all during my childhood. 
          The first time was at a visit to a relative's house in the country. I may have been 7 or 8 years old. The adults were inside talking big people talk, and we kids were outside exploring the farmstead,  accompanied by the friendly farm collie-shepherd. All was fine. When the time came to leave, all the adults came outside to see us off. I think my sister was already inside on the back seat of my father's car. I went to get in the open door to join her and had taken my first step in when the dog, who was standing by with its owners, leaped up and bit me in the forehead. It caused a bruise which bled some, and I remember I felt embarrassed to have been attacked by such a friendly dog. I remember the owner stopped by our house some time afterward to check on the bite. I was even more humiliated.
         The second time of dog bite history happened a few years later when I was riding a bicycle, (either my brother's or one left by a neighbor boy for a period of time, as I never owned a bike until Dave gave me one as a present.) I rode down the sidewalk to the end of River Road, and was about to turn to head for home when a large tan great-dane type dog came running out of its yard from the house near the end  of the sidewalk, and bit me in the leg, knocking me off the bike. The owner came out and retrieved the dog, but never followed up. Times were  different back then.
   The last, or maybe I should say latest, dogbite occurred several years later, when I was riding a bike on the road past the Catholic church. A mongrel,  owned by the family who lived near the playground,  ran out across the playground and into the street and bit my leg.  I have a permanent bloodbruise on that leg. I don't think anybody was aware or notified. As I said, times were different then.
    I won't expound on the last and most serious dog bite, as I've written about it before. In February of 1973, my 2 year-old son was attacked by a large German Shepherd on the porch of the Valley Falls Post Office, approached by the dog from behind and evidently with the intent to kill, as it knocked him down and made repeated bites on his head, stopping only when I turned the few steps back and yelled.  The other dog bites I have enumerated were single bites, with each of the animals retreating, bite and run,one might say. This dog was actively intent on a kill, as the bites came fast and furious, and the surgeon used hundreds of stitches to close a number of wounds. The doctor said if this 22 lb. child had been bitten on any other part of his body with that force, from a dog weighing well over 100 lbs. that he would not have survived. The skull is made of  strong bone.

Musing about Meds

 For several years, I regularly drove my mother and her sister to their local primary care doctor, about once a month I think, where they adhered to the single prescription he had prescribed for them, which we picked up at the then local pharmacy. My mother died suddenly, of a heart attack, on October 30, 1983, at the age of 78.  Shortly after that, her sister, at age 83, decided to forego both doctor visits and medications. She died in July of 1995, at the age of 94. 

Sunday, October 12, 2025

Life is but a dream...

 We were all in a hospital room, a large undefinable space,with family members coming and going, nobody confined to a bed. I had some difficulty communicating with any of the family members. All were going about their own business, so I couldn't help but feel somewhat isolated. But all seemed to be going in the right direction. Then we received a call from Oprah Winfrey, who was a patient on a floor or two above. She was direct and demanded to know who was going to bring her sugar. Dorothy had done so in the past and we all were pretty much in agreement that Oprah had self-prescribed this dosage of sugar, because otherwise the hospital staff would have  administered it to her. 

 But we wanted to help her with her wishes so I tried to get one of the many family members to comply. I was unable to get anybody to even listen to me, much less to agree to bring Oprah's supply of sugar to her. I finally told myself that if I prepared the sugar dose, maybe somebody would drop it off. I tried to figure what the dosage would be, and decided on 2 tablespoons of sugar  to a cup. I wondered where I could get a cup, and remembered the water station at the Cardiac Rehab facility, where I went and took one of the many plastic cups available there. I filled another of the cups from the water supply nearby and then went to the dining room for some sugar. Now I have the sugar in one cup and the water in another, but I had to search for something to stir them together.

   Unfortunately, I was awakened before I could locate the plastic spoon I was searching for, so as far as I know, the sugar was not delivered to Oprah. 

Wednesday, October 1, 2025

"A Series of Unfortunate Events"

 Not car troubles this time, not broken car key, damaged ignition system, lost lug nuts, dead battery, or flat tire. They're all in the past. 

But several quirky incidents  happened inside my house, all within a few days of each other:  (1) My computer totally malfunctioned on Sept. 29. The mouse could move to the selected site, but with no result. Of course my first thought was to replace the batteries in the mouse. I did so twice, with new batteries recently purchased. Nothing happened. I turned the system off, but the screen opened briefly, then faded, first to black, and later to gray, white, and shades of violet. I checked all the plugs, and tried again. Various messages appeared, "Chrome is not responding,"  "Oh, snap, something went wrong," and others. No advice offered,  human or artificial, had any effect, so I gave up and went to bed. But at 3 a.m., when Spelling Bee opens for the day, I as usual went to the computer and all seemed back to normal. Hallelujah! A miracle.  

Yesterday, I had difficulty turning on the television  in the living room. After several futile attempts, I rebooted the TV and was happy to see a picture on the screen. Success! But short-lived. Only Channel 2 would appear, with no way to change the channels or adjust the volume control. So back to the pack of batteries and the changing of the remote. No effect at all, tried 2 new sets of batteries. I must confess I can not find the manual buttons on the set itself, though I  searched in vain.  I gave up and resorted to the small TV in the bedroom. Several hours later, I tried the main set in the living room, and all was as usual. 

   Except for changing the batteries, which had no effect, nothing else was done to solve either issue, with no apparent reason for the malfunctions, and no explanation for the restoration of services.  Eerie.

Something about the weather...

 Dave was more a person of action, not one to philosophize about life to any great extent, so I have vivid recall of the times when he did. It was a day with weather much like today, with promise of life and energy and potential. He arrived home from work, and commented, "I drove by the cemetery  and all I could think of was all those poor bastards lying in  the ground and missing such a beautiful day."