Sunday, October 26, 2025
Dog bites I have known
Musing about Meds
For several years, I regularly drove my mother and her sister to their local primary care doctor, about once a month I think, where they adhered to the single prescription he had prescribed for them, which we picked up at the then local pharmacy. My mother died suddenly, of a heart attack, on October 30, 1983, at the age of 78. Shortly after that, her sister, at age 83, decided to forego both doctor visits and medications. She died in July of 1995, at the age of 94.
Sunday, October 12, 2025
Life is but a dream...
We were all in a hospital room, a large undefinable space,with family members coming and going, nobody confined to a bed. I had some difficulty communicating with any of the family members. All were going about their own business, so I couldn't help but feel somewhat isolated. But all seemed to be going in the right direction. Then we received a call from Oprah Winfrey, who was a patient on a floor or two above. She was direct and demanded to know who was going to bring her sugar. Dorothy had done so in the past and we all were pretty much in agreement that Oprah had self-prescribed this dosage of sugar, because otherwise the hospital staff would have administered it to her.
But we wanted to help her with her wishes so I tried to get one of the many family members to comply. I was unable to get anybody to even listen to me, much less to agree to bring Oprah's supply of sugar to her. I finally told myself that if I prepared the sugar dose, maybe somebody would drop it off. I tried to figure what the dosage would be, and decided on 2 tablespoons of sugar to a cup. I wondered where I could get a cup, and remembered the water station at the Cardiac Rehab facility, where I went and took one of the many plastic cups available there. I filled another of the cups from the water supply nearby and then went to the dining room for some sugar. Now I have the sugar in one cup and the water in another, but I had to search for something to stir them together.
Unfortunately, I was awakened before I could locate the plastic spoon I was searching for, so as far as I know, the sugar was not delivered to Oprah.
Wednesday, October 1, 2025
"A Series of Unfortunate Events"
Not car troubles this time, not broken car key, damaged ignition system, lost lug nuts, dead battery, or flat tire. They're all in the past.
But several quirky incidents happened inside my house, all within a few days of each other: (1) My computer totally malfunctioned on Sept. 29. The mouse could move to the selected site, but with no result. Of course my first thought was to replace the batteries in the mouse. I did so twice, with new batteries recently purchased. Nothing happened. I turned the system off, but the screen opened briefly, then faded, first to black, and later to gray, white, and shades of violet. I checked all the plugs, and tried again. Various messages appeared, "Chrome is not responding," "Oh, snap, something went wrong," and others. No advice offered, human or artificial, had any effect, so I gave up and went to bed. But at 3 a.m., when Spelling Bee opens for the day, I as usual went to the computer and all seemed back to normal. Hallelujah! A miracle.
Yesterday, I had difficulty turning on the television in the living room. After several futile attempts, I rebooted the TV and was happy to see a picture on the screen. Success! But short-lived. Only Channel 2 would appear, with no way to change the channels or adjust the volume control. So back to the pack of batteries and the changing of the remote. No effect at all, tried 2 new sets of batteries. I must confess I can not find the manual buttons on the set itself, though I searched in vain. I gave up and resorted to the small TV in the bedroom. Several hours later, I tried the main set in the living room, and all was as usual.
Except for changing the batteries, which had no effect, nothing else was done to solve either issue, with no apparent reason for the malfunctions, and no explanation for the restoration of services. Eerie.
Something about the weather...
Dave was more a person of action, not one to philosophize about life to any great extent, so I have vivid recall of the times when he did. It was a day with weather much like today, with promise of life and energy and potential. He arrived home from work, and commented, "I drove by the cemetery and all I could think of was all those poor bastards lying in the ground and missing such a beautiful day."